Is your man sexy in every other way...besides smooching? Sloppy, wet, too much tongue - sounds like a dog, but unfortunately, men can be bad kissers, too. But like dogs, men can be trained! First, consider the length of time you've been together. Is it a first kiss that's got you down? No worries - it could be that he's anxious, nervous or just preoccupied with the fact that he's actually kissing you and not paying attention to his performance. Give him another chance to lay one on you in a comfortable and more private environment. Perhaps a new man just isn't what you're used to. If you got used to your ex's way of kissing, then it might take some time to warm up to the new guy's smooches, and that's OK. If you've been dating for a few months and his crappy kissing is really bringing you down, then it's time for a little intervention. Examine how you kiss first - kiss your man the way you'd like to be kissed, and perhaps he'll learn from your example.
If it doesn't help, then really examine what you don't like about his kiss. Is it too much tongue? Not enough? Too much spit? Loose lips? It's important not to bruise the old ego when you approach your sweetie about his pucker, so begin the conversation with what you do like about his kiss. "I think it's sexy when you press a little harder as we kiss." - that sort of sentiment will point him in the right direction and protect his feelings. But if it's not working, then don't be afraid to be direct but gentle. Perhaps if you demonstrate how you like to be kissed on him, then have him try the same way of kissing on you, then he'll get the point. Before you even have the conversation, however, be sure that disliking the way he kisses isn't symptomatic of a bigger problem, like disliking him altogether. It's easy to find fault in the little things when you're unhappy.