The study found that these women didn't often return to regular condom use, either. So when is it OK to ditch condoms? Obviously if you're monogamous, the temptation to skip them is there, but unless you're completely exclusive – and know for sure that this is the case – continue using them. Before that, you both should be tested for STDs and know whether or not previous partners had HPV or herpes. An HIV test needs to be done at least three months after exposure, so it's best to wait if it hasn't been that long since you or he were with another person. If not on the pill or other method to prevent pregnancy, then it's not wise to quit condoms yet. Ask yourself if you're ready to deal with the consequences of not using a condom – and if he's worth it.