If you're interested in making a little "personal" purchase -- whether solo or with your partner -- the thought of entering an adult sex shop may be intimidating. There are a few ways to prepare yourself for that first foray into a store where you're bound to see things that may push your modesty boundaries a little bit. First, decide if you're more comfortable going alone -- without having to face the judgment of your partner, friend, etc. Perhaps you and your partner are looking for something to spice up your love life. By all means, bring him or her! Your trip is likely to end in an adventure in the bedroom! If you're feeling shy and worried about the clientele, bring a friend. Select the environment of the store carefully. Some are situated in fairly seedy areas; on the other hand, some are very upscale boutiques.

Do your research beforehand to ensure that you feel safe and comfortable in the store. Feel free to use the expertise of the people working at the store – they've seen and heard it all. You probably aren't going to shock them. And it's helpful to know what you're in the market for before you go. Solo play?
A toy both you and your partner can enjoy? Perhaps you're just looking for an XXX movie. Many sex shops have Web sites with great information, details and even customer reviews, so it's a great idea to do some "window shopping" before you enter the store. Keep in mind, if you feel uncomfortable buying porn or condoms in a regular store, you may feel a little more at ease in a store where it's their specialty!