Looking to have a sexy night in? Perhaps you're just looking for an upgrade when it comes to boudoir wear. If your relationship is getting stale and needs spicing up, then a change in PJs might be in order. We're not talking about investing in XXX-worthy teddies or crotchless panties, necessarily. One of the sexiest things you can put on display in bed is self-confidence.  So if you don't feel attractive and confident in a conventionally "sexy" set of lingerie, then pass on it. We know you don't feel attractive in those old, ratty sweats, so don't wear those, either. Being comfortable and confident in your own skin is the way to appeal to your partner.

Not everyone is as tiny as a Victoria's Secret model – and that's OK. Choose boy shorts and a tank top in a baby soft or even silky material might be the way to go for you – plenty of skin shows without you feeling exposed. Men are tactile creatures – they like soft and silky – so look for that sort of material instead of what you think will appeal to him. A nightie works well, too, and it falls over all those curves you want to show off. Feeling daring? Wear nothing at all to bed, like many couples do. Many couples feel vulnerable and as if walls have come down in the relationship when there are no clothes between them. The sensual feeling of sheets against skin doesn't hurt, either. It's a great way to feel much closer to your partner and build intimacy.