Can't have an orgasm through intercourse alone? Join the club. Planned Parenthood estimates that as many as 80 percent of women have problems achieving the big O through intercourse alone. So what's a girl to do when she doesn't? Plenty. According to the experts, there's more than one way to skin a cat or please a... woman. Truth be told, the big C needs more attention than the big G (spot) to achieve the big O. It all comes down to the clitoris. Most women require clitoral stimulation to get off. From manual manipulation to oral sex, there are a few ways to complement the actual act of intercourse. When having sex, work yourself into a position (doggie style anyone?) where he can play with your clitoris with his fingers or even a vibrator. Or even a vibrator on his finger.
Make sure you add some moisture, whether it's a lubricant or even saliva. The wetter, the better. If he is struggling to get the job done right, show him how it's done. Don't be afraid to teach him the techniques you use to pleasure yourself. Nobody knows your secret spots like you do. If you're riding him, lean in and rub your clitoris against his pelvis. Experiment with different sexual positions until you find ones that best works in hitting the oft-ignored C spot. Many women find that they are best able to orgasm when receiving oral sex. The bottom line is that when it comes to achieving an orgasm, sometimes it's important to think outside of the box.