Breaking up is hard to do -- even when it's not with a boyfriend or girlfriend. Ending a friendship -- whether short-term or long-term -- can be every bit as painful as ending things with a significant other. After all, it is a platonic relationship we are talking about. There are a number of reasons why people end friendships. Maybe a misunderstanding has occurred. Perhaps you have grown apart. It could even be as simple as not having enough time for that person. Whatever the case may be, the sad fact is that person is likely no longer bringing anything positive to your life, at least nothing to warrant maintaining the relationship. Regardless of the whys, the more important question you face is "how?" How do you break up with a buddy? How do you "defriend" someone in real life? Before making the drastic decision to call it quits, make sure you are prepared to say goodbye to that person.