Improve Your Performance in Bed
But if you're using the exhaustion excuse night after night, it's a major turnoff and can have your man questioning whether or not you're still into him. If you really can't muster the energy, then titillate him with what you'd like him to do to you -- tomorrow -- while he pleasures himself. Maybe it'll encourage you to get in on the action as well. And if you just don't feel like it and go through with it anyway, it's not going to win you any points. Acting like sex is a favor is a surefire way to turn him off, as is letting him instigate the act every single time. Try sending him a sexy -- and blunt -- text during the day to let him know what you want to do when he gets home. It'll go a long way in spicing things up!