For others, maybe a pressed polo and khakis – whatever is comfortable and sexy to your partner. When it comes to grooming, a little scruff never hurt...but a lot does. A five o'clock shadow is pretty darn sexy on most anyone when it's groomed the right way. But when it starts looking shaggy and unkempt, it's time to shave it down. Top off your look with some great aftershave or cologne. You might want to get a few women's opinions about what smells great if you're changing it up, and don't buy until you try. Sometimes something that smells amazing in the bottle will react badly with body chemistry. If you're not a cologne guy, then maybe you can spruce up your natural scent with a scented deodorant or liquid soap in the shower. The men's versions they're coming out with smell amazing and are perfectly tailored for men's skin. Finally, don't forget the underthings. If you've come this far and your partner wants your clothes off, then be sure to be sporting some manly underwear. When in doubt, go for a boxer brief, but don't be afraid to mix things up once in a while with some bikinis!