The Dos and Don'ts of a Threesome
It may sound less sexy to go into the experience with a plan, but when you do, you get everything you want out of the experience – and nothing you don't. What are your reasons for wanting a threesome? Doing it to please your partner or save your relationship isn't the best idea. Is it a means to spice up your existing relationship or someone's cheating fantasy? People sometimes treat threesomes as an excuse to have sex with someone else – be sure that's not the case going into it. The third person should be an acquaintance, not a super-close friend of either partner. Choosing a partner's BFF – particularly if it's the other partner's suggestion – could imply that you've had fantasies about the person and may put a strain on the friendship. It may create tension afterward if someone gets attached to a person who you see frequently outside the bedroom. So remember, three isn't always the magic number.