3. Keep Things Light:  Keep the conversation about the night to the night. Stay in the now-moment.  Do not focus on the children, what happened that day at work (unless you had a sexy success then this is great night to celebrate).  Keep things light-hearted and focused on the love you feel for you for each other.

4. Be Gracious:  An aura of gratitude that you are with someone wonderful and that you feel you are someone wonderful, brings a romantic essence into the date.  Verbally affirm each other in positive ways to show the love you feel.  If you are in love, you are so very lucky.  Remember this and bring this energy into the date.

5. Love Yourself:  The most important ingredient.  Keep in mind that people will reflect back to you whatever the feelings you have and are directing towards yourself. If you are feeling love towards yourself, you are going to attract feelings of love towards you from others.  Love yourself.  It’s that simple and all that love will be reflected back to you.  The more confidence you have in yourself, the more your partner sees you as self-sufficient and independent with a mind of your own, the sexier you will be. 

6. Take a bath:  There is not a better way to end a great date.  After coming home from a delicious dinner and a glass of wine, get in the bath.  Add some salt, dim lights and light some candles.  Some of the best conversations occur in the bathtub.  It is intimacy time (not intercourse time). It is a time to rest, relax, talk and be in the verbal intimacy of connection.