Serve Up Some Healthy Competition in Your Relationship
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What to Avoid
Avoid competing with each other in terms of careers. Although we all want to be the best we can be at our job, trying to outdo each other will only cause tension. Your partner may become resentful if you are always the one receiving promotions and bonuses while he is struggling at his job.
Plus, career competition will cause one of you to have to make sacrifices eventually, which can be deadly for a relationship.
You also want to avoid turning everything into a competition. You should be able to relax and just enjoy yourself without having to turn everything into a game. A little competition is healthy and even necessary, but it can ruin a relationship if it becomes the main focus.
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A successful relationship requires a healthy dose of competition in order to keep it from becoming stale and boring. The trick is to prevent competition from being a constant force in your relationship. It's important to be equals and to be able to make compromises and sacrifices for the benefit of the relationship.
Competition should be fun and without conflict. Try one of these tips for healthy competition and watch your relationship blossom.
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