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A stalker might show up to be your knight in shining armor and "help." Don't accept it. Let him know a tow truck, AAA or a friend is already on the way. Be firm and unafraid to be construed as a "bitch." Better a bitch than harmed by a stalker. A non-stalker will accept your explanation and move on; a stalker might get visibly angry. Making you feel embarrassed, vulnerable or isolated are the goals of a stalker. He might send inappropriate gifts to your workplace to ensure that you become embarrassed in front of your peers. Or he could spread nasty rumors about you and pit friends against you. Fight the lies being spread and come clean with the truth, if any, immediately. Finally, threats of violence are intolerable. Contact police as early as possible if you're being stalked – keep contacting them with every incident so that they'll be forced to pay attention. - << Prev
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