Dealing with His Crazy Ex
Signs that he's still carrying a torch for her include engaging her on social media, texting and hanging out with her. It's best for them (and you and her) not to have contact – it just hurts too much when he goes back to you and starts the vicious cycle all over again. It's important for everyone to make a clean break and to be consistent. If she really becomes a problem in your lives, start by talking to her friends to see if they can help counsel her. The next step would be to get a restraining order that would require her to stay away and cut off contact, but try to be sympathetic to what she's going through before resorting to involving the authorities.