Face it: Sometimes you just don't feel all that sexy. But regardless of the reasons why, sometimes it can be tough to get your groove back. So when you feel unsexy and don't have the urge to hop into bed with your significant other, what do you do? There are a lot of reasons you may not feel like having sex, and if you're like a lot of couples, you're the one with the headache, and he's the one begging for a little action. Many working women who have to juggle a job, kids and umpteen other things put sex last on the list of things to do at the end of a long day. But a lack of intimacy can be a relationship killer. We're not saying you should just lie there and take it - instead, try a little give and take. There's nothing sexier than feeling appreciated, and a great way for you both to get what you want is for him to lighten your load outside the bedroom. When he takes a couple of household tasks off your plate so you can have a little "me" time, then you're more amenable to his desires in bed.