Is Monogamy Possible?
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The author of Lust in Translation, Pamela Druckerman, says Americans have an unrealistic view of human nature in marriage, expecting fidelity and being "too surprised" when a spouse cheats. "The knee-jerk reaction is that you have to get a divorce," Druckerman says. The French, Druckerman says, have lower expectations. They are hopeful of having a monogamous marriage, but view infidelity as just another hurdle to overcome in the marriage if it happens. Conversely, there are plenty of payoffs for a monogamous couple. Sexual monogamy is obviously safer than having multiple partners, and there is the element of safety and trust in a monogamous relationship. Regardless of what options you and your partner decide on, it's crucial that you are on the same page to preserve the love and trust you have in one another.
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