Staying Safe on the First Date
Many women know this, but it bears repeating to meet in a public place – a restaurant, coffee shop or other spot where there is safety in numbers is the way to go. If you go on a date, drive yourself – this keeps him from knowing where you live while offering you your own transportation home should things go badly. Be sure to have cash on hand for public transportation if you choose to use it. Schedule a check-in with a friend who can call you at an appointed time to ensure that you're OK. Let your date know about the call if you like – if he's not OK with it, then that's definitely a red flag. Just be courteous about taking calls, particularly if things are going well. As the date ends, feel free to share a kiss if you're into it – just don't let him get you into your car to continue the make-out session. The car can be a danger zone if you're parked in a dark area or on a deserted street.