Before Jumping on the Plane to Meet Him…
3. Are you sure about your feelings for him? There is no question love requires attraction. There is nothing like waking up in the arms of your lover, especially after a romantic evening. Do you picture this? Think about it - are you already talking about him to your friends - all the time? If so, it means you are already dreaming about him and he hasn’t even touched you yet. The relationship is off to a good start.
4. Does he like you back? Answer this question honestly. Ask your best friend for an outside opinion. Or even test him by asking him to do things for you - yes, even far away, like: reading a book you choose and then talking about it together - you want to see how carefully he read it; asking him to take various photos of him and his life, just for you; and buying a CD or downloading certain music you enjoy
The goal isn’t to ask something expensive, but rather something meaningful to see how hard he wants to impress you and how curious he is about what you. I know it’s an easy sign for my friends to know if I am serious about someone, because I listen and know the small things about what she likes and doesn’t.