Speak Up: School Your Kids in Being Assertive
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That doesn't necessarily mean you should come to your child's rescue every time she is faced with adversity. Let your child fight her own battles - you can't be there all of the time to save the day. Teach your child to use an unyielding tone when working to be assertive. It's not about yelling or acting angry but using a firm voice.
Work with your child on her mannerisms. Encourage your child to make eye contact, speak confidently and hold her head up high. Instruct your child to stand up to bullies and not waver. Don't push your child to go for what she wants at any cost. The last thing you want is to raise a bully. Remember, there's a big difference between being assertive and being aggressive.
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