Rounding the Bases: How Far Should You Go?
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A good rule of thumb is that you should take the time to get to know the person and whether or not they're right for you before jumping in bed. To give a specific time frame would be impossible, as every situation is different and every relationship progresses at a different pace. However, relationship coach Susanne Alexander tells Webmd.com to people should consider holding off for awhile. Alexander explains, "It becomes much more difficult to objectively see each other's character traits. Some couples then slide into engagement and marriage only to discover they have missed seeing major aspects of each other." Slow and steady may actually win the race in this case. Also keep in mind that it is important to take into consideration the risks of STDs and pregnancy. Put your safety first and be sure to have a talk when moving forward with the physical aspects of any new relationship.
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